As a travel writer and photographer who journeys the world, I have experienced an incredible array of hospitality from a homey bed and breakfast in Michigan to a rustic rain forest lodge in Sabah, Malaysia; from a modest hotel in the Sonoma, California, to ultra modern accommodations in Berlin, Germany. But, although I have been graciously welcomed at all of these destinations, I have never considered any—other than visits to my relatives— my "home away from home."
But, now, after the terrorist attacks in New York and Washington, D. C., I feel as if I truly have a home away from home: Budapest, Hungary. Let me share this feeling with you so you can consider Hungary as a travel destination yourself.
I came here as a photojournalist eager to photograph the Hungarian countryside, learn more about the country’s diverse cuisine, and become more familiar with its burgeoning wine industry. It has been ten years since Hungary has made the transition from communism, and the progress the country has made, particularly in the wine industry, has been incredible. Yet "progress" has not taken a toll as it has done in many other locations, stripping it of its real identity. Hungary is an unspoiled travel destination, where you can still enjoy the richness of its cultural heritage.
I spent an enjoyable and most productive seven days here, becoming more familiar with not only the foods and wines, but with the country itself, as well as the people of Hungary. I discovered that this small country, located in the heart of Europe, offers travelers an incredible array of activities—from sophisticated cultural events, to horseback riding in the countryside; from historical treasures to the lively action of casinos.
I was ready to return to the United States when U.S. air space was closed because of the tragedies of September 11. I could not even fly to Canada and drive home to Virginia because the U.S. border was closed. That's when I really found out about Hungary's generous hospitality and how warm and welcoming its people are. Whether it was Nadin Kenderesy at the Hungarian National Tourist Office, Assistant Executive Manager Gerhard Bosse and his caring staff at the Kempinski Hotel Corvinus, travel agent Katalin Dombo, or the others I didn’t know by name, countless people not only expressed their deep sorry, but actively came to my aid.
Through the next days, countless Hungarians offered me their condolences. Beata at MALEV airlines shared my joy that my husband, who frequently consults at the Pentagon, was all right. I was especially touched when I received a call from Gabriella, my guide on the first day. She just heard of my indefinite extended stay in Hungary and, although she had to work the following day, she said that her daughter, a high school student whom I had not even met, would like to take me to visit some Hungarian museums in the afternoon. As it turned out, I wasn’t able to accept this kind offer because I had made other plans. But perhaps I should have expected such warmth as the Hungarians always capitalized the word You when they corresponded with me.
Even before my extended stay, I found Budapest a dynamic destination, which reflects its own national character. By day it is a city rich in culture, shopping opportunities, and nature, as well as historic and architectural treasures. At night, especially along the Danube, it is a twinkling fairy tale of lights. But, the more I stayed in Budapest, I learned to really feel at home. I navigated my way around the city by foot, used public bus and metro transportation, asked questions at the post office and shopped at the local grocery store—all with a limited Hungarian vocabulary of köszönöm szépen, or thank you.
From the downy soft duvet in my room at the Kempinski to the warm welcome of its people, Budapest has become my home away from home. So köszönöm szépen to all of you who have been so kind to me. I feel that I have not just traveled to Hungary, but made many friends there. I look forward to returning the favor when they come to the U.S.
And, for those of you who have not visited Hungary, I urge you to make it a part of your travel plans. Get to know Hungary and its people and don’t be surprised if you feel at home here as well.
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