It took me three tries to finally find Washington, an exceptionally frustrating experience for someone who likes to travel. Paris, London, San Francisco, Chicago, Toronto -- they were places that we could figure out quickly and hit the ground running. But not Washington DC.
Yes, we could easily get around to the historic sites and memorials; the museums and the places we see nearly daily in the news. But something was missing. For all the activity of being the seat of government and one of the more visited cities in the world, we were coming away from it with zero affection -- and we are people who LIKE cities. Washington to us was a collection of impressive monoliths and marble, but little else. It had no real personality of its own. Frankly, it reminded me of visiting a cemetary; interesting, but not something to spend days at. We were weary of the street people, the lack of places to spread out and drink in the ambiance of a city the way we do in so many other places.
Thank goodness we gave it one more try and discovered the Dupont Circle area, spent some time in Georgetown and got into some neighborhoods far from the "main attractions". At last, we FOUND the city filled with young policy wonks discussing important issues at the tables next to ours in the coffee shops; the fine restaurants that we knew were there somewhere in an international city of this calibre. ("They don't ALL really leave for Virginia and Maryland after 5 each day, do they?" We had been asking ourselves.)
And so we offer a few minor discoveries outside of the guidebooks for the good of the order, in hopes that it will not take others three tries to find the interesting, vibrant city of Washington DC without breaking the bank.