My wife and I have traveled widely, and we've met wonderful people wherever we've been; however, nowhere else have we ever been met with such openness and generosity. At the risk of sounding maudlin, I'll try to explain myself.
During the planning stages of the trip, we were in contact with a South African, a native Capetonian, whose brain we shamelessly picked. Enough messages had flitted back and forth between Muscat and Cape Town that I was almost beginning to feel a trifle embarrassed. Questions just seem to beget other questions, if you know what I mean. That said, we had seemed to hit it off, and it was clear that he wanted to meet us at some point during our stay. Fine. Fair enough. I figured that would be as far as it would go.
Well, about two days before our intended departure, the friend emailed once again, and without my ever having dropped any sort of hint, said he'd be happy to pick us up at Cape Town Airport. Wow! Fine, of course! Who could refuse that kind of offer? After a long, overnight flight, especially one that involved two plane changes, the last thing I like doing is dealing with buses or taxis or the inevitable touts. We accepted the offer immediately.
When we got to Cape Town, sure enough, he was there, right outside customs, and within minutes, we were in his 4x4 heading into town. Rather than take us directly to our hotel, which he said he wanted to do, we soon found ourselves up on Signal Hill, one of the smaller peaks adjacent to Table Mountain which has a breathtaking view over Cape Town, the sea, Robben Island, and the beaches to the south. He told us it was the best place to get ourselves oriented in the area. He certainly wasn't wrong. After an hour or so, he took us on to our hotel, which was on the far side of town, and during the drive invited us to a braai, a South African-style barbeque, at his home in the southern suburbs. After we were in our room, we both asked ourselves if this was all for real because neither of us had ever experienced such a thing before.
It most definitely was for real. The next evening, he picked us up, and we drove out to the house after a stop at Bloubergstrand, from which one gets the classic view of Cape Town at the foot of Table Mountain and the sea in the foreground. This fortuitous view is thanks to a hook-like peninsula which drops down to the south from the main land mass. Anyway, we got to the house about 6:30pm and didn't leave until after midnight.
Over dinner, which consisted of charcoal-broiled fish--a local variety whose name I forget right now--and boerworst, or Boer's sausage, and all the trimmings, washed down by a superbly crisp, chilled South African white. Over dinner, conversation centered mostly on South Africa and the changes that had taken place since the end of apartheid. But we also found ourselves invited to go with them the following day on a drive down to the Cape of Good Hope...
We really thought that must have been a one-off encounter. What we discovered was that everyone we met, especially those who ran the B&Bs where we later stayed, would bend over backwards to help, offer advice, or just share a joke. People talk to strangers in South Africa. Sadly, that's a much-neglected, indeed nearly forgotten art in almost all the rest of the world.