This was my first time staying at a true bed-and-breakfast. Previously, I had been concerned about not getting along with the other guests or, worse, the owners. In my imagination, we'd all eat breakfast together and somehow we'd all get into an argument. That would never happen in real life, right?
So, I looked up bed-and-breakfasts on the OP and saw that BJ's Garden Gate was highly rated. I was warmed by BJ's friendly Texas voice on the phone and the ease of dealing with her for reservations. When we arrived on our first day, she welcomed us to the house and gave us the rules. Yes, you have a hot tub in your room, but you cannot use it after 9pm. No eating in your room either, she told us, noting we had brought a bottle of wine. If you want to take breakfast to go, she'd put together a take-along bag for us. She also gave us tips on where to go the next day.
The rooms were decorated in an anachronistic combination of French, Victorian, and country designs. To give an example, heavy dark furniture adorned the room alongside flowery bedspreads and lacy doilies, and the bathroom had a straw hat as a decoration. There was indeed a lovely window with a view of the ocean.
The rest of the property was equally lovely, with a charming if not-so-sophisticated garden complete with garden gnomes. Snobbishness aside, the garden would make anyone smile.
The to-go breakfast was substantial and lasted us for the whole day, with fruit, yogurt, muffins, juice, and coffee. The next day we experienced the gourmet five-course breakfast. The five courses consisted of the coffee course, the orange juice course, and the French toast course. The breakfast was tasty and quite filling. Unfortunately, it was during breakfast when our conversation revealed something about our hostess that I feel I must reveal. In a conversation about America, she revealed to us that the slaves should feel lucky that they were brought here for free when most people's ancestors had to pay to come to this wonderful country. At another point, I do believe she used the n-word, although I've since blocked out the context. We are a lesbian couple, and she never said anything about that. I don't know if her own politeness kept her comments back. Anyway, it became very uncomfortable, and we were glad to leave.
In summary, it's a nice bed-and-breakfast. Personally, I have my reservations in recommending the place because of her comments.