The first time I ever visited Hawaii, I was a rather naive 14-year-old who had lived most of my life off the coast of the Chesapeake in southern Maryland. At the time, Maui seemed really exotic and extremely beautiful. My parents, brother, my older cousins, and I all stayed at the Embassy Suites, which was the first time I had ever stayed at such a place. Let me tell you, both my brother and I were in heaven! The pool was rather cold, but there were water slides, free breakfast in the mornings (of course local style, but still yummy), and a rather rocky beach. My brother and I were amazed by the large, talking tropical birds in the lobby and the pink flamingos that wandered around the resort. I think my parents were as happy as my cousins--they could relax, soak up some sun, and in the evenings, go out to dinner without having to bring us along. As you can guess, this resort is very family-friendly and very safe. During this stay, Maui was extremely small and not very built up, but of course, the Lahaina Whalers village was there, and a few of the stores here and there, but nothing like it is today.
My second visit was with my husband, approximately 10 years later, and boy, had Lahaina grown since then. This time, we stayed at the Maui Marriott Resort for three days. As an adult this time, I still had such a great time; however, I just could not believe how everything had changed so much. The whole entire island was becoming more commercialized than it had used to be. There were now buses that took us from Kaanapali to Lahaina, and now Lahaina had many more shops just about everywhere. The Whalers village was still just about as quaint, and the shopping around there was still great. Traffic on the island had definitely increased from 10 years prior, but still, the roads were of course much less congested than they are on Oahu. At this point, I found that Maui's personality was changing, though--it was no longer the friendly little sleepy island that the Big Island still is. It was becoming more cosmopolitan, and you could tell the local economy was beginning to realize the value of relying on tourist dollars and not agriculture.
My last visit to Maui was with my brother and sister-in-law and my husband.
At this point, the island had become much more crowded and was beginning to resemble Oahu in a way. It still retained its beach-party/surfers'-paradise type of atmosphere, but that was slowly diminishing. The island had many more hotels and resorts along the Kaanapali, and Lahaina now boasted strip malls with stores like Pier 1 Imports and Walmart. The smaller vendors are now harder to find, as they all attempt to compete with the larger chain stores. This time we all stayed at the Royal Lahaina Resort, which wasn't bad, but if I had my choice, I would stay at the Maui Marriott Resort again, as the quality of the rooms, staff, and restaurants was much better. This time we all explored more of the island rather than just hanging around Lahaina and Kaanapali. We took the road to Hana, swam in one of the lagoons at the Seven Sacred Pools, saw tons and tons of waterfalls, viewed our first macadamia-nut tree (all those years of living in Hawaii, eating macadamia nuts, and I never knew what the darn tree looked like), did one heck of a lot of hiking and driving, and all in all, had a great time. This time my husband and I also took a helicopter tour with Alex Air in Kahului, which was absolutely awesome! Helicopter tours are a little expensive, so if you have a large family and are traveling on a budget, I would possibly avoid this attraction--but if money is no concern, I definitely recommend it, as long as you don't get airsick easily.
I am sure that next time I make a trip back to Hawaii, Maui will have changed to the point where I will barely recognize it. Aloha and mahalo, Maui, for the memories of great vacations.