We had so much fun! When we first got to Aruba (we being my sister, her boyfriend, and myself), we dropped all our things in our room and took off for the beach. That night we dined by the light of Tiki torches and a local singer.
The following day, we woke up and went down to the beach. There was a kiosk a stones throw from our resort that did parasailing, diving, snorkeling, and more! We went parasailing for a decent rate.
For dinner, we headed out on a tour called the "kuku kunuku bus tour". We went on a ride up the coast to the only lighthouse and had a champange toast, and then were whisked away to a beautiful house for dinner and discounted drinks, and then went out for dancing and more drinks! The next day we went out shopping and exploring. The last few days we mostly spent at the resort on the beach and by the pool, playing games and getting pampered.
Quick Tips:
Aruba is a great family destination. I think the only drawback is it can get very expensive to stay there where food and shopping is concerned. I would suggest to bring some non perishable items with you, like bagels, chips, maybe juice boxes, and cereal (especially cereal, it's a box!).
Sunscreen is a MUST! And apply it at least two times a day so you don't end up roasted! DON'T buy a phone card in the US because it will not work down there. Pick one up when you get there if you need to, but I found the phone rates to be reasonable. One last thing, you go through customs BEFORE you leave the country (there's a US customs office in the airport), so especially if you're leaving on a weekend, leave a little early.
Best Way To Get Around:
We were all under 23 years old, so we had to depend on taxis. Remember to ask the rate before you get in the cab. There are no meters. From the resort areas to downtown are usually around - 12. A car is not needed for every day, most resorts have car rental on site and the day by day rate is reasonable. There really is not too much public transportation in Aruba.